5 Habits that Make a Big Difference

Many of my previous tips have examined ways in which young hockey players and athletes can become more successful. This tip is intended to give 5 simple habits young players can follow that will make a big difference; some of these habits are summarized from previous tips and some are new. The 5 simple habits are:

1.       Being Very Very Prepared – It is obvious that being more prepared than your opponent gives you an advantage. Having that little bit extra can be the difference from scoring or not scoring, from winning or losing. It is by far the biggest and most obvious distinction, thus it cannot be stressed enough. Make doing the work and going down the extra mile to be very prepared a habit!

Preparation can be broken down into physical and mental preparation. Physical preparation includes working out and practicing yours skills to taking time off, resting and recovering. It is not only important to put in the time to be well prepared but it is also important to be deliberate in preparing. As discussed previously (click HERE), it is deliberate practice that predicts success, not just practice. The top players practice hard; they have high intensity, pass hard, shoot hard and shoot to score, skate hard, stickhandle fast, battle hard, check hard, and play good defense. These good habits start in practice. Practice like you play or you will end up playing like you practice.

On the other hand, mental preparation can be acquired through various sport psychology techniques. However, one of the best forms of mental preparation is doing a lot of physical preparation (as just mention). This often gives one of the greatest mental edges one can acquire – confidence! In fact, when players lack confidence, one of the best ways to get it back is to simply practice more. The various forms of sport psychology techniques such as imagery, self-talk and goal setting will be discussed another day, but they certainly also help in getting that mental edge on your opponents.

2.       Stay Focused – Second to being very prepared is staying focused. It doesn’t matter how prepared you are if you can’t keep your focus and perform when it counts. I won’t dare to suggest one specific best way to stay focused as this can vary from person to person. I will comment that having clarity in one’s focus is beneficial, as discussed in a previous tip (click HERE). If you are focused on doing too many things there is a good chance you are not going to remember most of them. I will also suggest that during games or game like situations in practice, it is usually good to focus on broader things; such as “just play my game,” “I have more time then I think” – Jason Spezza, “have fun,” “be present,” or “just breathe.” The rational being that if you break things down into too small of parts when you are performing it will hinder your performance; the performance becomes choppy and the optimal state where things just flow will be unattainable. This is probably not the same for skill acquisition where you might learn a skill one piece at a time. Since what works for one person might not work for you, I recommend to just do what works best for you; you may even find that what works best will change overtime. Nonetheless, make it a habit to get focused and stay focused.

3.       Be Assertive – I’ve written several tips about the differences between aggressive, assertive and passive (Click HERE, HERE and HERE). This is in part because being assertive is so crucial to one’s success. Zach Parise is a great example of a player who is effective because he is very assertive. He is small for an NHLer but he chases down defenseman with a lot of tenacity. He reaches, uses his stick, and throws his body around. Similarly, as a coach I consistently teach my players to be assertive and compete. Being assertive when battling with an opponent is instrumental. I don’t encourage slashing and crosschecking (aggression), but if you are not using your hands and stick to push and dig then you are not doing everything you can within the rules to win a battle. If you want to make it anywhere in hockey you need to make it a habit to be assertive.

4.       Have High Standards or a Low Tolerance – Great players don’t put up with teammates that create a poor team culture or environment. Team culture is extremely important for the success of team, but it is also important for individual success. A team’s culture depends on both the coach and the players of that team. The coach is obviously influential and certainly helps shape the culture and can do so knowingly; however, it is the players that ultimately create the culture through their behaviours and comments. If players on a team don’t think it is important to practice hard or they are negative and picking on other teammates, this can create a culture where these behaviours become normalized and/or accepted. In turn, this is detrimental to how the team feels about each other (team cohesion) and the team’s success, as well as the individuals’ experiences and development are hindered. Practicing battling against a player that isn’t giving his/her best effort will not be nearly as beneficial as battling against a player that is giving his/her best effort. Therefore, make it a habit to have a low tolerance for players who are creating a poor team culture, and consequently pull up your teammates to help them, your team and indirectly yourself.

5.       Have Fun – Having fun while playing hockey is so fundamental, it is often forgotten. However, it can actually be associated with increased effort, a positive state of mind and, subsequently, improved performance. Aside, if hockey isn’t fun, then you should probably reassess why you are playing in the first place. I suggest you make having fun a habit, you can always find a way to have fun, even when things aren’t going your way. And focusing back on having fun may just be what you need to turn things around!

Those 5 habits have been chosen based on what I felt as most important. There are many other important habits; some honourable mentions included: never giving up, thinking long term (click HERE), and asking for feedback (click HERE). Lastly, if players are not already practicing these habits, it is never too late. I’d suggest they should start practicing them now and continue to practice them right into next season.